While reading a book on gender and identity in Africa and while also illustrating a book cover for a book on a young man's Sexlessness at 35, i came upon this interesting article on sex(lessness) in the life of the disabled, from a disabled woman.
Interesting i think
http://www.tarshi.net/blog/i-column-sexless-in-the-city/

And a sweet little find in connection -

And then you realize how little this face matters, how little the shape of our bodies matter, how little our hotness, this obsession with being attractive matters when inner strength and beauty is what you need to survive the joys and sorrows of the world.